When Love Becomes a Dream Instead of Reality

 


Sometimes I wonder what love really feels like. Not just the word “love,” nor the title of being in a relationship, but the deep feeling that wraps you in warmth and makes you know, without a doubt, that you are cherished.

It’s not that I haven’t felt love before, I have. I’ve known what it feels like to be wanted, cared for and held in a way that made my heart at peace. But that was a long time ago. The truth is, it’s been soo long since I last felt that kind of love, the kind I really want so badly.

Now, I crave it. I think about it. I dream about it. But in reality, I don’t have it. My man is here, but the feeling is not. He doesn’t show it. He doesn’t make me feel it. And that’s the hardest part, because love isn’t only about being together, it’s about being seen, being valued, and being cared for in ways that touch the heart.

Love should be more than promises, it should be presence. It should be more than “I love you”, it should be actions that prove those words are real. A simple call; a warm hug, a thoughtful gesture,these little things carry the biggest weight. Without them, love feels empty, like a song with no melody.

So, I find myself clinging to my dreams. In my sleep; I feel the kind of love I long for, the tender touches, the attention, the unspoken assurance that I matter. But when I wake up, the reality hits;I don’t have it here.

This isn’t bitterness, it’s honesty. And maybe someone out there feels the same. Maybe you’ve been in love, but still feel unloved. Maybe you’re in a relationship, but still feel alone. If that’s you, then you understand this ache.

I believe love should not only exist in our dreams. It should be lived, shown, and felt everyday. Because at the end of the day, true love is not just a word. It’s a choice, a presence, and a devotion.

And until I feel it again; not just in memory or in dreams, but in real life, I’ll keep speaking about it. Hoping, one day, it won’t just be something I long for. It will be something I live in.


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